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My Core Values
- That each and every human being on Earth is a person of value
- That each of us deserves to have a life that is satisfying: one that incorporates love, connection, freedom, responsibility, meaning, and purpose
- That we are all connected at a fundamental level - from which we came and to where we are going
- There is light in each of us
- To help people, one at a time, find and experience deep gratitude and a profound joy that is available in each moment
Specializations
Many times as a child, positive attention or affection was given for good grades or doing well in sports. This is where the positive reinforcement for achievement, power, and success was born and often continues into adulthood. So as an adult, we may find that though we may be successful in our profession or monetarily we are still not quite satisfied.
For many successful professionals, the drive to achieve is very strong. Setting and reaching goals is something to strive for and be proud of. But in some cases, the drive to achieve takes on an addictive quality. Often, people with a history of trauma, emotional abuse, abandonment issues, or emotional neglect may have an underlying belief that "something is wrong with me."
This is often where unhealthy coping mechanisms come in including addictive behaviors. This includes not only addiction to power, money, success, or material things but substances and/or relationships as well.
Due to my many years in the mental health field, I am particularly adept at working with addictions, underlying unconscious conflicts, resistance, difficult emotions including anger, depression, and anxiety, as well as getting people "unstuck." Once some of these issues are resolved, there is more clarification and direction for our life's purpose.
Best Life Coaching's philosophy for life satisfaction -
Research has shown that people who report having a satisfying life generally have 3 things in common:
Why should a client consider paying a fee-for-service with life coaching rather than using their insurance and going to a therapist?
When a client uses their insurance, there are specific parameters set by the insurance companies that limit and restrict the tools that therapists can use. This includes particular techniques that are evidence-based and effective but may be seen as controversial as they are not as commonly used in Western medicine. In my fee-for-service coaching practice, I can use these techniques and tools which include biofeedback, neurofeedback, hypnosis, and energy psychology practices. Other restrictions placed by insurance companies may also include the severity of diagnoses that are acceptable to treat or the number of sessions that are required to treat each client. Unfortunately, many insurance companies seem to believe that there should be a one-size-fits-all regarding mental health and well-being. My experience has shown that even with the same diagnosis, the etiology of the diagnosis, the techniques that will be effective, the skills that will be helpful, the time frame that will be needed, the motivation that will be seen, and prognosis can all vary greatly.
Often in therapy, there is much focus on the past to gain insights to create a whole picture moving forward. In coaching, most of the focus is on the present and future, with a more goal-oriented clientele. I have found that I can affect a great deal of change with clients who are ready and motivated to make these changes. Often it is just a matter of understanding what has held them back from making the changes and a bit of clarity for the path forward. I work with my clients to develop this plan as a team, plan for obstacles, do regular check-ins, make adjustments to goals as needed and have a clear end goal in mind. With our work together, my clients can understand how to tackle obstacles, set, and achieve goals on their own and begin to create the life that they have wanted.
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Hypnosis for Past Life Regression and Life Between Lives Regression
Have you ever wondered about the lives you've lived before or the experiences you've had between incarnations? Past Life Regression and Life Between Lives Regression are powerful tools that can help you explore these profound questions and gain deeper insights into your soul's journey.
Past-life regression is a form of hypnosis that allows you to access and explore memories from a past life. During a regression session, you will be guided into a deeply relaxed state of consciousness, where your subconscious mind can access these memories. These memories can provide valuable information about one of your past lives, such as your personality, relationships, and life lessons.
Life Between Lives Regression is a technique that allows you to explore your experiences between incarnations. This can include visiting the spirit world, connecting with spirit guides, and learning about your soul's purpose. Understanding your soul's journey can give you a deeper sense of meaning and purpose in your current life.
Hypnosis can be a powerful tool for personal growth and transformation. By exploring a past life and life between lives, you can:
* Gain Self-Awareness: Understand your patterns, fears, and limiting beliefs.
* Heal Emotional Wounds: Release past traumas and negative emotions.
* Discover Your Soul's Purpose: Gain clarity about your life's mission.
* Enhance Creativity: Tap into your subconscious mind to unlock your creative potential.
* Improve Relationships: Develop stronger connections with others.
Session 1: Intake (1 hour)
* Initial Consultation: We'll discuss your goals and expectations for the regression session(s).
* Preparation for Hypnosis: I'll explain the process and answer any questions you may have.
Session 2: Past Life Regression (4 hours, if needed)
* Hypnotic Induction: You'll be guided into a deep state of relaxation.
* Regression: I'll gently guide you through one of your past lives.
* Integration: We'll discuss your experiences and insights.
Session 3: Life Between Lives Regression (4 hours, if needed)
* Hypnotic Induction: You'll be guided into a deep state of relaxation.
* Regression: I'll gently guide you through your experiences between lives.
* Integration: We'll discuss your experiences and insights.
Premarital Counseling
Marriage is one of the most meaningful commitments two people can make. Yet most couples spend far more time planning their wedding than preparing for the lifelong partnership that follows.
Premarital counseling is an opportunity to slow down, reflect, and intentionally build the foundation for a strong, resilient marriage.
My approach is designed to help couples understand themselves, understand each other, and learn how to navigate life together with honesty, compassion, and clarity.
I believe that strong marriages are not built on romance alone. They are built on:
● Self-awareness
● Honest communication
● Mutual respect
● Shared values
● Emotional maturity
● The willingness to choose each other again and again
Premarital counseling gives couples the tools and the language to talk about the most important aspects of life together before problems arise.
Many couples assume that love will naturally guide them through anything. Love is essential—but lasting relationships also require understanding and skill. In our work together, couples explore meaningful conversations about the topics that most often shape the success of a marriage. These conversations may include:
● Communication styles and conflict resolution
● Expectations about commitment and fidelity
● Family backgrounds and values
● Finances and financial decision-making
● Children and parenting philosophies
● Career goals and life direction
● Spiritual or philosophical beliefs
● Intimacy and emotional connection
● Boundaries with extended family
● Lifestyle priorities and daily living
The goal is not to force agreement on every topic. The goal is to help couples develop the ability to talk openly, respectfully, and honestly about anything. When couples learn how to communicate with kindness and curiosity—even during disagreement—they gain the confidence that they can navigate life’s inevitable challenges together.
Marriage is more than a romantic milestone. It is a conscious commitment between two people who choose to build a life together.
In many traditions, marriage is described as a covenant—a promise not only to each other, but also to the deeper values that guide your lives.
That promise may include ideas such as:
● Choosing loyalty and respect
● Supporting each other through growth and change
● Standing together in both joyful and difficult seasons
● Creating a home built on trust and love
Premarital counseling offers a safe and thoughtful space to explore what this commitment truly means for each of you.
Couples often tell me that these conversations become some of the most meaningful discussions they have had in their entire relationship.
My premarital counseling program combines clinical psychology, relationship research, and guided conversation to help couples prepare for a successful marriage.
The process may include:
● A comprehensive relationship intake
● Guided exercises and reflection questions
● Structured discussions about key relationship topics
● Evidence-based relationship insights
● Communication tools and practical strategies
● Personalized feedback and recommendations
Some couples complete the process in a shorter series of sessions, while others prefer a deeper exploration over time.
Every couple is unique, and the process is tailored to support your relationship.
One of the most important aspects of premarital counseling is creating a space where couples can be honest—without judgment and without pressure.
It is normal for partners to have differences in personality, background, and perspective. In fact, learning how to understand and appreciate those differences is often one of the keys to a strong relationship.
During our sessions, couples are encouraged to speak openly, listen deeply, and approach each conversation with kindness toward themselves and each other.
The goal is not perfection.
The goal is understanding, connection, and shared intention.
Research consistently shows that couples who participate in premarital counseling experience:
● Better communication
● Greater relationship satisfaction
● Increased confidence in their commitment
● Lower likelihood of serious relationship distress
Premarital counseling is not about fixing problems. It is about building strength before challenges arise.
Think of it as investing in the future you are about to create together.
If you are engaged, seriously dating, or considering marriage, premarital counseling can help you begin your life together with clarity and confidence.
Preparing for marriage is one of the most meaningful gifts you can give to your relationship.
I would be honored to support you in building a partnership grounded in honesty, respect, and lasting love.
The Space
The Best Life Coaching office of Dr. Christine Olney is located in Oxnard, CA with a beautiful view of the Channel Islands. Her office is a safe and comfortable environment to explore issues, gain insights, develop skills, and learn tools in order to overcome obstacles and achieve goals.
Coaching sessions can be done in-person at the office or by video conference. Discounted package rates are available.
If coaching is something that you have considered, call and schedule your free 30-minute consultation with Dr. Christine Olney. It is time that you invested in yourself.
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